On Aftercare. I love this dance on the fringe of darkness.  And I am intensely involved when I have my girl before me.  Depending on the situation and her needs, it can involve both physical and emotional experiences.  And when I hunger, it can be hot, hard, deep action across a wide range of stimuli and sexual activity. Yet, when we are both finally sated, amidst a trail of the implements and clothes that serve as way points for the erotic journey of the day, the most touching part of the dance is upon us.  Aftercare is how I show my love, appreciation, and support for my girl. Let’s remember that she gives fully of herself in her submission.  She may crave humiliation and objectification, and I may take her to some very dark places in the process.  I may also subject her to physical challenges and hard use as I sate myself.  Our dance can be totally immersing and intense. This is why I try to make the last part of our pas-a-deux a warm, supportive, loving time of reflection.  I curl her up against me, keep her very warm, stroke her hair, allow her to nuzzle, and give her gentle kisses and caresses.  I will tell her how amazing and fearless she was, how proud I am of the way she served, and how incredible she made me feel with the gift of her body.  I will ask about new experiences and have her reflect.  This is how I re-affirm the dance on the fringe of darkness as a intimate union between two equal, but opposite halves of the same coin.  This is what makes me feel so fulfilled as a Dominant.  And this is what makes a submissive feel loved, cared for, and appreciated in the gift of herself.
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On Aftercare.

I love this dance on the fringe of darkness.  And I am intensely involved when I have my girl before me.  Depending on the situation and her needs, it can involve both physical and emotional experiences.  And when I hunger, it can be hot, hard, deep action across a wide range of stimuli and sexual activity.

Yet, when we are both finally sated, amidst a trail of the implements and clothes that serve as way points for the erotic journey of the day, the most touching part of the dance is upon us.  Aftercare is how I show my love, appreciation, and support for my girl.

Let’s remember that she gives fully of herself in her submission.  She may crave humiliation and objectification, and I may take her to some very dark places in the process.  I may also subject her to physical challenges and hard use as I sate myself.  Our dance can be totally immersing and intense.

This is why I try to make the last part of our pas-a-deux a warm, supportive, loving time of reflection.  I curl her up against me, keep her very warm, stroke her hair, allow her to nuzzle, and give her gentle kisses and caresses.  I will tell her how amazing and fearless she was, how proud I am of the way she served, and how incredible she made me feel with the gift of her body.  I will ask about new experiences and have her reflect. 

This is how I re-affirm the dance on the fringe of darkness as a intimate union between two equal, but opposite halves of the same coin.  This is what makes me feel so fulfilled as a Dominant.  And this is what makes a submissive feel loved, cared for, and appreciated in the gift of herself.

(via bluegenie607)

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