On Flogging. Feet are not the only things that dance on the fringe of darkness.  I enjoy a variety of implements, but I personally feel that pain should be used as foreplay and erotic challenge - with a threshold sufficient to make a girl wet profusely.  I also use pain in “reminder” situations, when correcting bad behavior, and to improve a girl’s discipline.  Any girl who has neglected to remove her panties when coming to see me can testify to this last note. So - given that I am not a sadist (I get no deep sexual arousal or personal satisfaction from inflicting severe pain), I have learned to make a flogger dance and jump on a girl in a way that makes her wetter than hell and just as hot for my cock (you can tell by my words that I am a little playful at this posting).   I have a variety of floggers, with different numbers and lengths of tails, across a range of leather.  This never fails to make my girl wet with anticipation, as she does not know if she will receive a flogging with the glove leather flogger (which has a menacing “SNAAAAP” when thrown with full force - but rarely bites enough to mark her) or perhaps the “business” flogger (which must be handled with less force and can be devastating on tender flesh). Every Dominant will have his own approach to flogging.  The key is to make a flogging personal for a girl.  One must reach deep and appreciate why she commits herself to a lash.  Does she do it out of devotion - to prove her love and/or service to him? Does she do it out of pride - to demonstrate what she can (and is) willing to endure for her Dominant? Or does she do it for the adrenaline and endorphin rush - immersing herself in the experience and embracing the special high that makes her float in his arms? Personally, I like a girl that revels in all three scenarios.  Care to dance?
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On Flogging.

Feet are not the only things that dance on the fringe of darkness.  I enjoy a variety of implements, but I personally feel that pain should be used as foreplay and erotic challenge - with a threshold sufficient to make a girl wet profusely.  I also use pain in “reminder” situations, when correcting bad behavior, and to improve a girl’s discipline.  Any girl who has neglected to remove her panties when coming to see me can testify to this last note.

So - given that I am not a sadist (I get no deep sexual arousal or personal satisfaction from inflicting severe pain), I have learned to make a flogger dance and jump on a girl in a way that makes her wetter than hell and just as hot for my cock (you can tell by my words that I am a little playful at this posting).  

I have a variety of floggers, with different numbers and lengths of tails, across a range of leather.  This never fails to make my girl wet with anticipation, as she does not know if she will receive a flogging with the glove leather flogger (which has a menacing “SNAAAAP” when thrown with full force - but rarely bites enough to mark her) or perhaps the “business” flogger (which must be handled with less force and can be devastating on tender flesh).

Every Dominant will have his own approach to flogging.  The key is to make a flogging personal for a girl.  One must reach deep and appreciate why she commits herself to a lash.  Does she do it out of devotion - to prove her love and/or service to him? Does she do it out of pride - to demonstrate what she can (and is) willing to endure for her Dominant? Or does she do it for the adrenaline and endorphin rush - immersing herself in the experience and embracing the special high that makes her float in his arms?

Personally, I like a girl that revels in all three scenarios.  Care to dance?

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